The situation has changed over the last day or two. Paul's stomach and bowel have now shut down. He is unable to take fluids by mouth, and IV fluids have simply increased the fluid collecting in his stomach, which has caused a lot of vomiting in recent days. So Paul has decided that there will be no more fluids administered. This obviously means that Paul's time is now limited.
Chris has arrived from the UK. I have decided not to fly back to the UK tonight. Miang, Chris and I will help nurse Paul at home until the end. If you need to contact us, please call our home number (04) 977 9261.

Catherine, Thank you so much for your update. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. May uncle Paul remain pain free and may you all be filled with strength to care for Uncle Paul at home. All my love to you Catherine. Please tell Uncle Paul I love him dearly.
ReplyDeleteDear Catherine and Chris,
ReplyDeleteThank you for keeping us updated on Paul's condition. All of Paul's friends from Palmerston North send their love to you and Paul.
My thoughts are with Paul and with you, the caregivers. Much love, courage, and inner strength to you.
ReplyDeleteDear Catherine, Miang, and Chris,
ReplyDeleteJanie amd I are greatly saddened by the latest developments. We had hoped that the peritoneal surgery of 2010 would have given Paul much more time. Even though we are many thousands of miles away, we are with you all in spirit amd send you our love and very best wishes.